In "How do you become...?" is where we talk about certain career aspirations and how to practically obtaining that position. today though,
I won't name a particular career, instead I am going to discuss
a key element that is essential to reaching your goals.
HOW DO YOU BECOME...? A Goal Reacher, A Dream Fulfiller is...
Out of love Dear Readers, Is why I say this to you...
First of all...
"STOP TRYING TO EXPLAIN YOUR VISION to the VISION-LESS!"
Also, BE CAREFUL who you hang around and entrust with your dreams and visions for yourself! In other words, For those people in your life that don't understand or support the dreams and goals you have for yourself, STOP TRYING to get them to see what YOU see! Sure, Some of those same people may have visions for their company, their church and their family, but for some reason, they can't or won't share YOUR VISION
about you! What you want out of life and what you are determined to go and get for yourself!
Some of them may even RESENT the fact that YOU dare to dream!
Don't be shocked by that!
Some people use other people as mirrors, for what they have, want, will not have and or want to become. YOU may just be their unwanted mirror of comparison! Just STOP TELLING them what your plans are for yourself!
If they don't get it, won't get it, seem uninterested, unexcited, doubtful and talk down to you about it, realize that and stop trying! As much as you want that person to believe in your vision, the way YOU believe in it, for some reason they are not doing it! And if you pursue their support, you might just end up taking the focus off of what' s really important (your goals) and putting the focus on that other person and their misery! Wanting support from people is natural, but giving over to that end could be just that ...the end! Every one of us is accountable for what we do with the precious gift of life and talents that we have been given. Why are you listening to negative talk, hanging on to doubters and not PREPARING, PERSISTING AND PURSUING the life you really want! If that person you are seeking support from, help from, guidance is say...LAUGHING IN YOUR FACE and saying things like "none of us are going to get where we really want to be" and they cover that up by more laughter...that's your cue that they DO NOT BELIEVE in you! And yes! That happened to me, RECENTLY!
Stay Tuned for Part 2 of
"Stop Sharing Your Vision with the Vision Less!"
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