MEN, WOMEN & Children- What others think!

Welcome Dear Reader,

Reader, I'm going to say something that maybe only people who truly love you, including a "True" Friend would say. 'Cause true friends will stand by your side during your good times and in your bad times, through richness and poverty. They will keep your secrets and truths. They will fight for you and with you. A true friend will also believe and hope for you and with you! Especially in the tough times when you can't seem to believe and hope for yourself! They will be there when others, even those who claimed to love you, have ran away from you! When the T.F. themselves get angry with you, they will return.

A true friend will smile and agree with you, but only when you are right! They are not going to " kiss your butt", to stroke your ego. They will let you know when you are wrong and have acted terribly. They'll be your conscience. They won't let you get away with wrong destructive behavior because that way of being is not to your benefit. It won't bring out the best in you!

A True friend will tell you the truth, but in a loving fashion. Not in a way to tear you down, but to build you up! They are committed and loyal and ask only the same in return. So, in this moment, if only for the moment, I hope you will view me as such, A true Friend.

So, here goes.

For ALL OF US,

...no matter our age or gender, we need to understand some things.

And one thing that comes to my mind this morning is that ...

we need to STOP giving SO MUCH THOUGHT into what other people think about us! Because truth be told, more often than not, we are thinking more about ourselves than the other person probably is!

I attribute this kind of behaviour to either an inferiority complex or OVER-valuing ones self (which is a component of Pride).

And it may be hard for some of us to accept, but we need to also understand that...other people have their own lives, families and concerns to think about too! They have more important things, other than our complexes and egos to concern themselves with.

And rightfully so!

KNOW who you are!

Understand your value, your worth,

but don't lose sight of reality!

We are at times, but GOD is no respecter of person.

He loves us all!

Truly Yours,

Your T.F., Meetta