LET US INVESTIGATE THE NATURE OF THE WOMAN.
WOMEN, SISTER GIRLS...
"No matter that we are not related, or if we've ever met, no matter your race, creed, or culture, we are all united by humanity."
So Sister Girls, I feel comfortable in saying to you what I am about to say.
In spite of all the woman's positive attributes, like having a nurturing, compassionate nature and being exceptionally strong in truly adverse situations, Some of us...... ARE SOME STUBBORN, MEAN, NASTY, UN-UNITED, NON-SUPPORTIVE, BETRAYING, BACK STABBING, CRUEL, HATEFUL CREATURES!
YES! This is coming out of the mouth of the woman who also said and wrote that "WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL BLESSED THINGS!" I also wrote in that same passage...that many women, don't know it!
You may be saying "WELL, WHERE IS THIS COMING FROM MEETTA?"
It's coming from a place of wisdom. It's coming from a place of truth!
It's also right to say, that it is coming from a place of hurt.
Sister Girls, I have but only Love for you all! Those of you who know me personally, who have spent any time with me, FOR REAL, know this!
KNOW THAT I MEAN THIS ALSO! If I could sit down to a cup of coffee with you all and get to know you, bond, laugh with you, share things and grow with you, I would! THOSE CLOSE TO ME, KNOW THAT I WOULD EVEN FOOT THE BILL!
I've never had sisters growing up and THAT is a HUGE thing that I always wanted, but never really got! So, bonding and building relationships with other women has ALWAYS been important to me! I have been fortunate (blessed) enough to have some wise, strong, truthful, supportive, creative women placed in my life! So, I am blessed with "Sisters", though not blood related. Oh! there were "Sisters' in my family!
My Dad had other children, 3 girls and a boy, They (the other children, then adults)
knew about me when I was born, but I didn't know about them until I was 25 years old! After 2 years of trying, to build a bridge between some of them, it was decided by 3 out of 4 of my siblings that I didn't belong amongst them! "It was too painful" I was told. Though " it was not personal, seeing me and having me around brought up too many bad memories".
THREE SETS of children after 2 marriages and one relationship in between, is what my Dad had! And that is another situation that created much problem with the women AND the children! It speaks a lot on the nature of a woman, 3 women, one man and 3 families! It speaks on the strength of women and that ugly competitive spirit that awakens in women especially when men are involved. It also touches on the subject of weak and selfish men.
Those relationships, put all of us involved, in UNWANTED situations that opened the door to future problems that we could not plan for, especially, us kids involved! So, in talking about this with you, I find it necessary to probe the secrecy's of numerous families, and what that entails. Because those relationships ARE NOT about the here and now, they are about TOMORROW AND YEARS LATER! Kids grow up, you know! They develop mature minds and emotions that have to be dealt with. Also, the kids have to deal with the influences of the parents because from the parent is where children learn so much about life and how to deal with the expected and unexpected of it!
As a product of one of these relationship, I will explore the feelings of the women involved, the feelings like betrayal and broken trust. I better understood why my mother had such animosity towards my Dad and why my family spiraled out of control! I will give insight into my own thoughts about this considering my astonishment I experienced at 25 years old, when I found out that I had another set of siblings that I never knew about! Out of examining "THE NATURE OF A WOMAN", 3 SETS sprung out of it!
So, THREE (3) sets is another article, yet to come.
In fact, years ago I wrote a poem about 3 sets and what that can do to a family. I will post that poem also when I do the article.
Anyway. I started out talking about the nature of women.
I'm speaking from a woman's point of view, not a man's!
While it is true, that we are naturally sexual, sensual beings, we also have a side of us that if awakened, we become something totally different! Often times we blame men for many things! In most cases, they deserve the blame, but many, many other times, it is women who create problems and know how to stir that pot real well to keep it going!
There are stories of blood related sisters who have slept with the other ones husband or boyfriend. It is sisters and best friends who lied on each other and tore lives apart for whatever misguided excuse "reason" they used to justify it! What about when a woman is being physically, verbally and emotionally abused by a man? When I was a kid, my mom had friends who were the victims of this kind of thing and my mom would open our house to them for refuge. So, I saw it first hand. My mom wasn't the type of woman, that would question these woman and say "WHAT DID YOU DO TO cause this? As if it was the woman's fault the man nearly killed the woman! BUT, THERE ARE MANY OF US, WOMEN, WHO HAVE AND STILL ACT THIS WAY! (Those guys were just terrible, controlling, jealous jerks!) What about the fact that generally speaking, men are NATURALLY stronger than women and unless protecting himself from a life threatening attack from a woman, he should not be beating or hurting the woman in ANY WAY!
Sisters, WHY DON'T' WE ASK THIS QUESTION MORE OF THE MEN WHO HURT these women? SAYING, BROTHER what's wrong with YOU to be doing that to my Sister, mother, neighbor Girl or whoever? WOMEN, WHY are WE SO HATEFUL AND UNLOVING TOWARDS EACH OTHER? It can't be "love" you have for your sister, daughter, aunt, friend, helpless stranger or mother even, that you would excuse women getting abused! If you "love" me, you would help me or at least support me! Hate takes us to the other side of the spectrum where we just don't give a darn! "It's not me!", some of you might say.
It's a shame, tragedy and a travesty is all I'm saying, sisters, the way some of us are!
There are Sisters, daughters, mothers, best friends have betrayed other women in their lives on some level! Many of these betrayals involve a wide range of other issues, everything from lying, how to properly raise children, money issues, gossip and rumor spreading, broken trust, jealousy, use their feminine wiles to manipulate and steal some ones man, all the way to putting themselves in the middle of a man and his children!
YES! There are women out here who would put themselves in the middle of the man they supposedly "Love" and HIS CHILDREN!
So desperate that they would knowingly rob and potentially ruin the child's life so that they could have the man all to themselves.
These kind of women are very dangerous in that, they use their "feminine wiles" to even have power over a man! Um HM.
Some of you all know what I'm talking about!
If you have an ex-mate, whether through divorce etc. that has or had a "SHE SAID" in his life, then you know what kind of disastrous problems that can create.
The "SHE SAID'S", especially, using their feminine wiles can influence a mans decision making even when it comes to his kids! They are especially powerful over weak minded men, selfish, prideful men. Over time, and sometimes all of a sudden, the man starts to begin sentences with "SHE SAID,
I should do this," SHE SAID ...I should do that!
Sometimes, "THE SHE SAID'S" get much bolder and start "suggesting" to the man as what he should do, in relation to you and the kids. I know of one particular "SHE SAID' that go so bold and the man started telling the ex, whom he had kids with,
what she (the ex) should be doing. This is the man, in relation to the children..."SHE SAID that YOU should...". HUH?
The guy was talking like something off of Star Trek! Like when someone would put one of those alien bugs in someones ear to control them! WHEW! I tell you, Listening to a man with
"SHE SAID" on his lips is a very frightening thing!
I even think their eyes glaze over! It's scary I tell you !
JUST PLAIN SCARY!
Sisters, if you are a 'She Said' or know of one, you need to investigate how and why you are that way. BECAUSE you have the power of creating
SO MUCH HURT for yourself, the man you "supposedly love" and especially where their are children involved."She Said's", have affected relationships of ALL TYPES, including friendships and relationships within close families! "She Said's", have and can create so much hurt in innocent people including and especially children, people who have nothing to do with your inner issues! People who ARE NOT deserving of the mess that you potentially can cause! Women, I tell you...the nature of a woman...IS FRIGHTENING!
Sister Girls, (women of all races, creeds and colors) even women on the job have caused terrible problems. They let their misery affect their minds and have done things like gotten terrible rumors and gossip started.
Using favoritism against other people, lying on other people or using their weakness or even their niceness to get ahead of them. Some women have even gotten people wrongly fired for their own cruel personal reasons!
Some power hungry, desperate woman would call this "fair play", "strategizing", "Just doing my job". I call it "conniving!"
There are Supervisors and other people in leadership who get involved in this kind of dirtiness on the job. A blatant misuse of power!
WOMEN, I will leave you now, to think on these things I have shared with you. I love you , but you my Sisters, but some of us HAVE SOME TERRIBLE WAYS! I was always taught to tell the truth that...
...THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!"
What are your thoughts on the matter of this post?
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REMEMBER, that these posts are to inform (educate), support and inspire growth from, NOT to bash!
THANKS, MEETTA
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