Do's and Don'ts...
DO... take suicidal comments seriously.
DO... respond to suicidal statements.
DO... encourage the person to seek professional help.
DO... help find resources.
DO...offer to take the person to get help.
DO...get rid of any lethal means of committing suicide;
poisons, pills, drugs, guns, rope, sharp instruments and other weapons etc..
DON'T...act shocked or panicked!
DON'T say...things like "Oh, you don't mean that!".
DON'T...intervene alone.
DON'T WAIT!
"When a person makes a decision to commit suicide, they may suddenly become calm. Their decision provides relief because the suicidal person has found a "solution." to their problems. DO NOT IGNORE THIS!
DON'T ASSUME THEY ARE FINE NOW!
Do not ignore this state of calm or apparent wellness.
If you think a friend or loved one is planning suicide, don't be afraid to ask and investigate.Don't take their word for it, especially if you have noticed a change in their behavior towards this end. They may be prone to lie to protect their "solution." Don't let your fear of the answer inhibit you form asking this question. Most people considering suicide will talk about it. If necessary, act to get emergency help form the police so they can intervene. You may have to contact the police over the suicidal person's objections. But if the suicidal act is imminent, delay will only make the risk of suicide more likely.
Part 5 will be up shortly
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